Becoming The Unapologetic Woman

Episode 3: Healing the Root: Why Empowerment Won’t Stick Without It

June 26, 20252 min read

Episode 3 - Becoming The Unapologetic Woman

"Healing the Root: Why Empowerment Won’t Stick Without It"

Let’s tell the truth:
Empowerment without healing is just a performance.

You can say the affirmations.
You can dress the part.
You can chase the dream.
But if deep down you still feel unworthy, unseen, and unsure… it’s not empowerment — it’s survival in disguise.

In this raw and revealing post, I’m peeling back the polished layers of “self-improvement” and getting honest about what’s really required to rise unapologetically. It’s not more motivation. It’s not more hustle. It’s not even confidence coaching.
It’s healing. Real, deep, soul-rooted healing.

This is the part that most people skip.
And I get why — because healing isn’t cute.
It’s messy.
It’s uncomfortable.
It calls you to face the very parts of yourself you’ve tried to silence, avoid, or perfect away.

But here’s what I know for sure:
You can’t lead from your full truth if you’re still afraid of it.
You can’t be empowered if your power still feels unsafe.
You can’t build confidence on top of unspoken wounds and unhealed stories.

In this post, I walk you through:

  • The difference between surface-level empowerment and real, embodied wholeness

  • The hidden signs of unhealed energy that sabotage your success and relationships

  • Why women often repeat patterns of shrinking, overthinking, or people-pleasing (even when they “know better”)

  • The internal shift that happens when you start healing from the inside out — not to fix yourself, but to reclaim yourself

I also share personal reflections on my own healing journey — the moments I looked confident on the outside but was still wrestling with doubt, fear, and old pain underneath. The truth is: becoming the unapologetic woman required me to do more than speak boldly — I had to get honest with the parts of me I never wanted to look at.

This post isn’t about pretending to be fearless.
It’s about choosing to be free.
It’s about remembering that your healing isn’t a weakness — it’s your pathway to power.

If you’ve ever wondered why all your mindset work isn’t “working” — this is the piece you’ve been missing.
And if you’re ready to stop performing strength and start embodying wholeness — this is your invitation to begin.

You’re not here to just look empowered.
You’re here to live it.
Let’s go to the root… and rise from there.

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With boldness and truth,
Chisa~Marie
Transformational Coach | Founder of The Unapologetic Woman
Helping women break free from limitations and rise into their power unapologetically.

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Chisa~Marie is a transformational coach, speaker, and founder of Inspiring Women to Excel. A retired U.S. Air Force veteran with over 20 years of leadership experience, she now helps women break free from limiting beliefs, reclaim their power, and live unapologetically. As the voice behind Becoming Unapologetic, Chisa blends bold truth with mindset mastery to guide women back to themselves—powerfully, purposefully, and without apology.

Chisa~Marie

Chisa~Marie is a transformational coach, speaker, and founder of Inspiring Women to Excel. A retired U.S. Air Force veteran with over 20 years of leadership experience, she now helps women break free from limiting beliefs, reclaim their power, and live unapologetically. As the voice behind Becoming Unapologetic, Chisa blends bold truth with mindset mastery to guide women back to themselves—powerfully, purposefully, and without apology.

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